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Negotiate asset split and spousal support: direct talks, mediator, or lawyer negotiations?
Hello,
I am currently getting divorced from my wife in Abu Dhabi. We are Americans, got married in the US 6 years ago, and are both non-Muslims.
We are officially divorced and we wrapped up custody proceedings for our 19-month-old daughter last week and it was decided for 50/50, joint custody.
I believe the next stage is for asset split and spousal support. Is that best handled with one-on-one talks with my ex-wife, or the use of a moderator, or have lawyer-to-lawyer negotiations?
Also, can spousal support be paid from the former wife to the former husband? In the US this is very possible.
I am very concerned about this as my ex-wife makes considerably more than I do (we moved to Abu Dhabi so she could take a lucrative position).
Thank you!
Greetings,
It is best to communicate through a skilled mediator to reach satisfactory solutions regarding the family agreement. We are honored to assist you and provide legal support.
For further inquiries, you can visit our office or contact us via WhatsApp, phone, or email.
We can assist you in negotiating with your wife on your behalf and finalizing a settlement agreement notarized by the court.
In case of any disagreements, the agreement will supersede. I believe this is the best way to resolve your matter and put your concerns to rest.
Hello,
As per your query, please note that if the ex-wife is working, then spousal support will be reduced, and you must provide proof of this.
Additionally, if there is a settlement agreement, it is advisable to appoint a lawyer not only to negotiate but also to submit a memorandum to the court.
Furthermore, to seek support and financial aid, you will need to demonstrate your liabilities. Please email us at [-------] or call [-------].
Thank you for reaching out and sharing the details of your situation!
Given the complexity of your case, especially with the international aspects and the fact that both you and your ex-wife are non-Muslims, it’s important to approach the asset split and spousal support discussions carefully.
While one-on-one talks or the use of a mediator can sometimes work for amicable settlements, involving legal counsel is highly advisable when significant assets or income disparities are involved, as in your case.
Lawyer-to-lawyer negotiations often provide a structured environment where your rights and interests can be fully protected, and any agreements made will be legally sound.
Regarding spousal support from a former wife to a former husband, while this is indeed possible in the US, the laws in the UAE are different, and it's essential to understand how these would apply to your specific circumstances.
Given that your ex-wife earns considerably more, it’s important to assess your entitlements under both UAE law and any applicable US precedents that may influence the case.
To explore your options further and ensure your interests are safeguarded, I recommend we discuss this in detail.
You can reach out to me directly via WhatsApp, phone, or email. I look forward to assisting you in navigating this process effectively.
Dear Questioner,
Consider these points before making a decision:
(1) The separation laws for non-Muslims are new in the UAE, and not everyone is familiar with them, including some lawyers.
(2) If the assets are substantial, such as real estate, consider that you might lose significant amounts due to a lack of knowledge about the laws.
(3) Understanding your ex-spouse depends on her personality, your personality, and the current situation between you. You know her better than anyone else.
(4) Legal fees in the UAE are much lower than legal fees in the US.
