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How can I act against the domestic violence and cheating of my boyfriend?
Hi.
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I moved in with him.
When we started dating, he already borrowed some money from me. Then later on, he asked me to take a loan so he could get a flat. Then when I got the bonus, we used it to pay his pending to clear his case.
He keeps cheating on me. many times I caught him. He became violent, hitting me, punching me even in a taxi, and he pulled my hair in front of his brothers. He broke my phone when I tried to move out.
But still, I stayed because I love him. He started buying cameras at home. He is hiding the camera because he is accusing me of cheating. He is accusing me of having a relationship with other guys in the flat.
He is becoming more and more abusive. Every day he is accusing me of something. I bought a camera and helped him install it to prove he was wrong. But he kept accusing me of even changing the position of the camera every day.
What should I do?
What legal action can I take?
I want to put an end to this now.
I fully understand the difficulty of your situation and the importance of taking steps to protect yourself. Here are the steps you can take:
Report domestic violence: Go to the nearest police station in Dubai to file an official report about the physical and psychological assaults you have been subjected to. The police will investigate and take the necessary measures to protect you.
Request a protection order: You can apply to the court for a protection order that prevents the abuser from approaching or communicating with you. This provides you with immediate legal protection.
Try to recover your personal belongings, such as your phone, and document any damage to them to present as evidence.
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Dear questioner
You can file a complaint at the Police station or report domestic violence in the domestic violence cell in the UAE for women.
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First of all, it is important to prioritize your safety and well-being.
If your boyfriend is becoming physically violent and abusive, it is important to seek help and remove yourself from the situation. You can contact the police or seek assistance from a domestic violence hotline.
In terms of the financial aspect, if you have evidence of the money that you have lent or given to your boyfriend, you can consider taking legal action to recover the funds.
You can consult with a lawyer to discuss your options and the best course of action.
Additionally, if your boyfriend is accusing you of cheating and constantly monitoring you with cameras, this could be considered a violation of your privacy.
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Welcome.
I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through.
If you have been physically abused by your partner, you can file a police report against him for assault.
Installing hidden cameras without your consent is an invasion of privacy, and you can file a legal complaint for that as well.
If the relationship is abusive, you can also apply for a legal protection order.
It's best to consult with a specialized lawyer or our office for legal advice and to take appropriate actions to protect yourself.
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I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. Your safety and well-being are the top priorities. Here’s some approach:
1. Recognize the Abuse: Acknowledge that physical violence and emotional manipulation are forms of domestic abuse. You deserve respect and dignity.
2. Ensure Your Safety: If you feel threatened, reach out to local authorities or a domestic violence hotline. They can help you create a safety plan.
3. Document Everything: Keep detailed records of abusive incidents, including dates and witnesses. This documentation is important for potential legal action.
4. Seek Support: Talk to trusted friends or family for emotional support and seek help from local domestic violence organizations or shelters.
5. Explore Legal Options: Consider applying for a restraining order and report any physical violence to the police. Consulting a lawyer specializing in domestic violence can help you understand your rights.
6. Plan Your Exit: If you choose to leave the relationship, plan the logistics carefully to ensure your safety.
7. Utilize Resources: Take advantage of community resources available for domestic violence victims, like shelters and legal aid services.
8. Focus on Healing: After leaving the abuse, prioritize your emotional and physical healing. Therapy or counseling may be beneficial.
Recognize the abuse, prioritize your safety, seek support, and consider legal actions like restraining orders while focusing on your healing.
Regarding the assault, you can go to the police station to file a complaint against him.
As for the money, if you have proof that you gave him the money as a loan, you can file a civil lawsuit against him to demand repayment of that money.
